Fortress of Solitude…

I have always been considered an extrovert. I grew up loving the energy found in large groups of people, especially at nightclubs, drum circles, concerts. I used to get energized by being around hundreds of people.

Lately I have been longing for my fortress of solitude. A place where I can lock myself away from the outside world and simply be. Parties tire me out, nightclubs leave me with a sense of ennui, and drum circles don’t fit me very well anymore. The only places I am fully comfortable these days are career oriented. I walk away from networking functions feeling energized and motivated even though I just spent an hour having small talk with a bunch of people I just met.

Maybe it’s because there is so little drama in professional events. I don’t have to worry about dealing with the myriad of petty matters that can arise when large groups of friends drink together. Mostly I just have to worry about spilling wine on my new colleague’s coat.

Frivolity doesn’t fit me very well right now, in fact it stresses me out. There is so much I need to do right now, so many different actions I need to take. I am building something and trying damn hard to make a positive difference as I do it. I want my choices to change the world, even if its only in small ways, such as parking in the church lot five blocks from work where the money I spend each day will be used to turn the lot into something beautiful for the community.  I want my actions to make a difference. I want to save species, fight injustice, and fix some of things I consider broken. My life focus is different than it used to be and I am finding very few people who share it outside of my professional sphere.

So I long for a fortress of solitude, a giant walled kingdom far away where I can hide with my family between battles for the world. (My fortress would not be made of ice and would definitely have internet. Fast internet.)

3 thoughts on “Fortress of Solitude…”

  1. Sounds kind of like my hermit cave. You can come live with me in my hermit cave. No, wait, then it wouldn’t be a hermit cave. Never mind.

    I think there’s a fortress of solitude across the street from the hermit cave. I’ll see whether it’s for sale.

  2. I’m totally a hermit these days – I remember after my first baby spending all my time driving or at the mall. I felt a need to be around people – like being alone with that little boy might be too much for me. But time and more babies have put me in a place where I love nothing better than being alone with my family – at least most of the time! And with internet of course….

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