More like baby shock. As the day of Otter’s arrival approaches, I keep getting these flashes of reality… I am having a baby. Another person. Who will he be? What will he be like?
There is something disconcerting about growing someone inside your body for nine months and still knowing very little about him. It seems as though I should have a very in depth knowledge of this little guy, and while I know we are already bonded, and that this bond will continue to grow, it still feels strange to think I will be meeting him for the first time in about a month.
I remember when Monkey was born, I had a similar reaction. After months of singing to her, reading to her, playing music into my belly, my first reaction after her birth was surprise. “Oh that’s a baby…. Oh fuck that’s MY baby!!” I looked at her little face and held her warm little body and thought “How?”
Of course, then she was in my arms and snuggled up to my breast nursing and I felt that special bond. It is still here, stronger than ever, a connection she and I have that no one else shares. It is precious, and wonderful. I have often wondered how I can have another similar connection with another person when the one I have with her is so intense and deep.
I guess I am going to find out in about a month! I am sure it will be a similar experience with Otter, I will experience a moment of disconnect and then all the bonded mommy/baby feelings will come rushing in. I can’t wait to hold him, and hear him cry, and be able to wear pants with a zipper. I want to find out if he is funny, like his sister, or serious, or what he is going to like or dislike.
It is so strange, this creating life thing.
Here are some recent baby belly photos:
This one really shows how big I have gotten! And he still has to grow by several more pounds! Ack!
Love to all of you! Soon there will be pictures of him, without the belly!
2 thoughts on “Not really baby blues…..”
I’m so excited for you two, err, three, soon to be four! Coming up on 1 month to go I think?
What are Marlena’s thoughts on the growing belly?
She is very interested and excited. I looked at her yesterday and said “Soon we will have four people in our family, that’s a little wierd huh?” and she said “That’s not wierd, I get my baby brother! That’s totally awesome!!”
She is ready.